Porn addiction, the video game sex market, fleshlights and many other toys are now booming industries. With sense of entitlement sky-rocketing in young women and the social media revolution skewing the dating dynamics, online validation means less sex for all involved, top dick exempted.
The above has ousted a significant part of the male (and female) population from the sexual market. Pretty soon, they will just stop having sex altogether. Much like the Japanese "herbivore revolution", this generation coming up is affected by counter-intuitive education. Adopting new technological products as a way of teaching these kids, meant that the new generation growing up on these products became completely addicted and dependent on them. The millennia's are being raised in their own not-so-private 24/7 news channel. Everything they do is reported, including their planned activities from birth till death, leaving little room for spontaneity, adventure, discoveries, things that used to impact your life and shape you into the person you would become.
From the end of World War II and the arrival of the baby-boomers, the millennia men might become the generation that will have less sex with fewer women than ever. Testosterone levels might plummet to a new low, leading to low DRIVE. Years from now millennia men will be on par with the "new" Japanese men that are simply not interested in sex. Men will rather talk to SIRI than attempt a conversation with a real life woman. With 3D-online sex dolls getting even more realistic, these men will use fleshlights and other sex toys, which are getting cheaper due to the new shipping distribution revolution (same day free Amazon delivery) to satisfy their basic masculine needs. Consequently they will no longer bother with the hassle of meeting and god forbid dating women in their subgroups.
In conclusion, the future for the millennia men looks bleak, dark and scary. Hope is very sparse. The pyramid of the top dog fucking all the women while a large pool of betas masturbate in their pants will only get thinner. The few that will understand this, will be able to have their gene survive. The rest, will simply vanish from coexistence.
The Liberal Arts Programs are a magnet for soon to be stupid white feminists, women who don't know their real value, are vulnerable to 'victimization,' jealous of their attractive friends and refuse to compete with men and Asian females in lucrative careers such as finance or IT. Let's call this type GIRL#1. She is most likely working class, but naive enough to believe she is middle class. Raised spoiled to believe that she is special and can do no wrong, when the time comes to decide on her future, she chooses anything that doesn't make her feel stupid (ie. STEM) or ugly/untalented (ie. film/art). She is clueless enough to believe that she is making the right choice, but in reality she just lacks options. She comes out of graduation 40 pounds overweight, 12 inches of shorter hair, 15 more tattoos, 2 unshaven legs and heavily in debt. All this while convinced about the unjust, rigged, patriarchal system and its effects on the poor, minorities, gays etc. Clueless and not realizing that she is the victim in all of this, Girl#1 refuses to pause and see what she has become, instead continuous to march on, searching for "causes" wherever she can. Fast track several years later and she is close to hitting the wall. Reality has sunk in. She is getting older. Her poor grooming and diet has taken over her and without a relationship in sight she has little left beside her numerous pets and her growing social media addiction.
This isn't the fate for all. There is a tiny minority of girls who are successful foundation creators. Others working high up in established NGO's as the rest head into politics and possibly journalism. This is almost always a bored rich white girl. We will dub her GIRL#2. She is the Ivy league graduate with no debt, plenty of comfort and a bright future. When she graduates she has options, connections and offers awaiting. She has very little networking to do since it's already done for her. She has a better grasp of realism due to her exposure to high status hobbies, travels and contacts. When a NGO hires for a position, she is favorite to get an offer due to her contacts, which could be potential donors. If she takes the political route, she is still heavily favored due to her dad's contacts for political contributions. If she decides to create a charity and spread "freedom" then all she has to do is start a kickstarter for her foundation and raise money: it's very easy when you know your family will kick in 90% of your "goal." If she isn't a lesbian and the time for her to marry approaches, who do you thinks she will tie the knot with? This type never marries down. She will rather date a hardcore republican who just happens to be from her Ivy league circle then a poor shmuck who fell for the "everyone should be equal" liberal arts bullshit. She will date a business man, a powerful attorney or someone like her from a wealthy family. The two will marry and have kids, presenting their offspring's with the best that life has to offer.
The above description of the two types of girls: the first representing the ultimate majority and the second the lucky elite minority is the liberal arts pyramid scheme. Girl#2 is of course at the very top of it. She will be the bored socialite daughter or wife of a politician or an artist while the first girl will still be paying school loans that helped pay the people at the top. While Girl#2 vacations in Aspen with her rich husband, attends social functions in Washington DC to help out blind Syrian kids, Girl#1 posts on her okcupid profile "this is me without make up, take it or leave it!" While Girl#2 travels to world class destinations, staying in 5 star resorts, all for the just cause of "peace" or "ending famine" Girl#1 is gang-raped in India. While the second girl's kids gain acceptance into elite pre-schools, the first girl gets a fourth cat and a second Chihuahua.
In conclusion, if you don't have the inherited head-start of Girl#2, you have no place, spending money you don't have and wasting precious time damaging yourself physically and emotionally in a pyramid scheme that guarantees your place at the BOTTOM.
Instead, what Girl#1 should have done is:
- choose opportunities that can secure her financial future
- take care of her physical appearance so that she can compete with Girl#2 for that high-class dick
- figure out where she belongs in the pyramid.
Just because you may look like the 'privileged,' it certainly does not mean that you are one. White guilt does not concern you! It should only concern Girl#2. The truth is often sad and in the words of Oscar Wilde it "is rarely pure and never simple."
I recently stumbled upon a strange article recounting the tale of a small but growing percentage of men in South Korea paying women online to eat with them. No I am not joking. Not eat them, just watch them eat from their laptops. At first I thought I was living in a post-apocalyptic world. This had to be a strange Asian version of seeking 'arrangement'. Surely the same would not happen here in North America: the land of the original Alpha Male.
But then I stepped back a bit and realized that most of the attractive girls that I know are actually also online whores. In a very realistic assumption I was able to sum them up into groups and distinguished three types of online whores. The first type, TYPE I is the pure prostitute. The oldest profession in the world has almost entirely moved online. The second type, TYPE II, is the sex cam girl. This is no different than a prostitute apart from the fact that everything, not just the initial transaction, occurs online. But recently, spurred not only by the growing popularity of the internet, but by the social media revolution we have the emergence of the third: TYPE III online whore, the instagram/product placement girl.
As if experiencing another kind of sexual liberation, a virtual one, every college girls dream is to take 50 selfies a day, post the best ones on Instagram, spam online dating websites so she can get more followers (ex. Tinder) and apply to bullshit modeling agencies that mostly do promo work for some forgettable event with in and out of rehab B-list 'celebs'. The more Instagram followers she has, the more 'gigs' she will get with the promo agency. The same goes for facebook, twitter and other social media tools. With everything linked up, she sends all of her followers to different events. The more successful she is at this, the more popular her 'brand', essentially just HER, will become. Using social media to become popular isn't new, the only difference here is that she offers absolutely nothing! And yet, with her popularity rise, she will be able to promote products and make a cut. The difference then between a sex cam girl (TYPE II) who I full heartedly respect way more or a hooker (TYPE I) which should also be more highly respected in my view and this new type of girl (TYPE III) is the fact that she has this 'next door' appeal, which is not really true because in most cases your next door neighbour does not look anything like this girl. Parallels could be drawn between TYPE III girls and the success of PLAYBOY in the beginning where they would seek out college girls that were not actresses or models posing for the magazine.
Sadly, most of her 'fans' actually think she is the girl next door type when in reality she is just a glorified whore. This is making it increasingly difficult to meet hot girls or barely very attractive girls in non-Instagram types of situations because not only is her value through the roof due to working as a TYPE III, but she is acquiring VIP status by doing very little. While a stripper actually works for a living and is after money and a sex cam girl works regularly to put on a show for her clients, this type of girl does not actually do anything except putting out photoshopped selfies. She is using the allure of the fact that you think that you could meet her. When in reality she should be treated just like a sex cam girl or a regular escort.
For some reason, it is more acceptable for her bandwagon of beta followers to spend hours looking at her pics, stalking her, being concerned with her updates, than actually leaving the house, going to a strip club with their buddies or god forbid walk into a bar and talk to someone. In today's liberal, politically correct environment it is no longer acceptable to go to a strip club. This is especially the case for the new generation. Years of brainwashing has turned these men into young boys, ashamed to objectify the opposite sex. Nevertheless, Instagram gets a pass. Its appeal seems to be that society does not see it as objectifying. It suffices to read the beta comments on these pics to understand where this trend is going. It will not be long now for a western man paying to watch women eat, watch tv, watch themselves watching them watching tv etc etc etc.
If you want a good business idea, start a website where men can pay to watch a woman watch a show online: such as 'Big Bang Theory', Thursdays at Eight. Watch it with Sarah for only $8.99!!!!
One of the most truthful comedy bits about the relationship between the sexes came from Chris Rock in the first decade of this new century when he said: A man is only as faithful as his options. Consequently, the more options a girl has the more high maintenance she is. There is a strong correlation that any guy who has been outside of his mom's basement knows between how hot a girl is and how great her options are. She is offered cock numerous times a day wherever she goes. Whenever someone opens the door for her, helps her with her tire, picks up something she dropped, fixes her computer or whatever techie problem she has, he is offering her cock. That, however, was then!
Enter the social media revolution: Facebook/INSTAGRAM/VINE/TWITTER/OD etc.
The exact same options that a hot girl had the privilege of having 10 years ago have been extended to the average girl today. An average girl is getting the same kind of attention a hot girl was 10 years ago. This attention for her is new. A decade ago, if a man opened the door or kneeled down to pick something up, it was probably out of pity because she was too fat to do it herself and the man just felt bad. But now, these average broads, for the first time (maybe an historical precedence) are experiencing validation on a mass scale. This validation comes in the form of status likes, ridiculously unrealistic Instagram photos (which with today's software can make Lena Dunham look bangable) and of course society's political correctness that protects women in general from being told they are doing wrong or socially unacceptable things.
Given that we live in a time where pretty much everyone is virtually accessible, an average girl could seek and chat to someone who is better looking than her, who does not work with her, will never run into her and/or lives in a different town. The guy she is accessing via the social media tools is a guy who at that very moment is feeling horny and wants to fuck something different than what he is currently fucking. Him being interested in this average woman drastically increases her options. This woman has now the opportunity to get the dick that she and her kind were never considered for in the past. It is a new phenomenon and it has become endemically addictive. This woman would turn down someone in the same league in terms of looks, money, status and feel she can do better by simply being exposed to the opportunity of having options. A simple conversation online is enough for her to turn 10 regular average guys down.
Fast track three months into this average woman's dating life: her Instagram is regularly updated with her girlfriends telling her how beautiful she looks instead of telling her 'great Photoshop work'. Her "I can't get enough of cinnamon" facebook updates receive 29 likes. She has become a validation addict. Throughout this time she has had many conversations with guys way above her league. Maybe one of them has led to a bang. She is now hungry and ready for more and this time she 'knows what she wants'. When she goes out, she puts her guard up, more so than ever before. Her online profile is full of disclaimers: "not looking for drama or a hookup"...blah blah blah..."are you ready for me" and all the other laughable headlines that men are all used to.
Because she got a chance to hit that premium dick, it is going to be tough for her to compromise on her lovers looks unless very good game penetrates it or dinner/drinks offers win her over. She waits for another text from the premium dick dude that fucked her senseless. He never texts her. She was number 3 on his list. Which means if his girl number 1 and 2 were not available she would get a text reading "drinks later?" . In reality, all of her perceived options were one big fucking illusion.
She actually does not have options and she will suffer from not knowing it. Denial is another form of insanity. She is the back-up of the back-up of the back-up. Men, generally tend to be more logical and they understand this. Women do not. Most men realize that if a girl cancels it is usually because she has better cock opportunities to attend to. Women simply do not realize that the premium cock they are chasing has many, many women chasing it. And while guys might be OK with getting cancelled for another time most girls will always want a little more. They want to be wined, dined, seduced and courted. So down the long road, all of this validation and 'options' is one big fucking illusion.
How to deal with this:
This was bound to happen. The warning signs were there. We all knew it would come. The question was when? Well, it is safe to say, that a new generation is upon us and Game 5.0 is here to stay...for the moment. It seems like not so long ago little known Styles and Mystery revolutionized Game 2.0 to be the most effective method a regular Joe could learn to get with many far more attractive women than he could ever dream of. Imitators and duplicators followed, eventually creating and simultaneously, one can argue, killing off two other generations of pick up game. Alas, this looks like it is the end of the tunnel. The train has stopped. The tab needs to get collected. GAME 5.0 pertains to those that already have a chair when the music stops. Hell, most of them were born with a chair.
In any society you live on, assign 100 as the maximum number of points a man needs to attract many beautiful women.
8% of all men in your society possess at least one of the six traits required to attract in abundance top women. VIPs, attractive men with nice bodies, rich successful GQ types, masters of a particular field/subject area and very few that have perfect, natural game. And I mean perfect. A 90% game point does not count. Given that our world is as integrated as it has ever been, most of the top 8% will have an overlapping of these traits. And why shouldn't they? This is very easy to do once you have at least one of the traits. A rich man can easily hire a personal trainer to form a nice body, a dietician and a nutritionist for high energy levels, a dermatologist and a plastic surgeon to improve his skin and appearance as the cost of these things do not apply to him. A VIP, can get game by simply hanging around beautiful women and situations with tons of access. A Master of his field will fuck all the top women of his field. Being with these women will increase his game to the point that it becomes natural. As a master of his field, he probably will be or has already become rich. A man who is attractive will have more access to beautiful women, effortlessly increasing his game all the while he will ask more of life and attempt to either become a master of a field, a VIP or rich or all three.If he puts more time in the gym his nice body will compliment him more, which might even get him VIP status.
So where do the rest of the men fall under?
Well, the remaining 92% are divided into TIER II MEN and USELESS MEN. While the former have knowledge of top quality women and are in a constant death match with each other to get to them (most noticeable at night venues where men burn one another at any opportunity to eat the asshole of an attractive female), the latter have no clue as to what's going on. They seem to have questions about the dating world that no answer is able to satisfy and fall pray of the "be yourself" rom-coms made up by penniless starbucks screenwriters who themselves are trying to leave their Los Feliz dump for that Hollywood Hills house and bang hotties while selling content that the 70% can enjoy. They themselves, of course, don't believe that bullshit.
The 22% are aware of the situation and are trying hard at racking up points at some of these categories. Unfortunately, they are wasting too much time on the GAME category. They should be spending their time on something else. It is no easy task to focus on one thing with so many easy distractions nowadays but delaying satisfaction is necessary to achieve any goal. With all women having easy access to men due to the integrated social media revolution, GAME as it once was is becoming very useless and it is being integrated with the aforementioned traits. Game was invented to differentiate yourself from the average Joes. It was a way of approaching and talking to targets which was unusual and exciting for women. However, the modern woman has access to thousands of men with a simple swipe on her phone. And differentiating yourself from all the noise, requires way more than just game.
The Women are the real winners of this new Generation Game. The top 8% of women (8s and up) will only date the top 8% of men. It used to be that you could find the top 8% of women in very random places. You could have found a top tier girl at the park, maybe at work, working at the local pub, on the bus. Nowadays, this is simply not the case. A top tier woman, has thousands of followers at the very least liking and commenting on her photoshoped pics on instagram telling her "Good morning", "Have a nice lunch" and "Good night". Any top tier girl can join a mediocre modelling agency, get some event "work" and will have on her resume "I have ___ facebook/twitter/instagram followers". The more guys ask her "Did you have a nice hanukkah?", the higher the chance that she'll get more gigs.
If you are good and can provide an illusion of being a top men, you already are a top man. Faking it till you make it, simply has no room in this generation of GAME. The other 22% of women all want the top men who fuck them in return at will. They are composed of bangable 6s and 7s or 8s and up who are either Cougars, have kids, crazy or unable to break out of their ethnic shell. They will only date a TIER II man if the TOP MAN has cancelled on them, walked in on him with her best friend and she wants revenge or she is on the verge of hitting the wall.
Whereas the bottom 70% are simply not bangable. However, they are enjoying all of the attention made available to them for the first time due to the social media revolution. They too are aiming to fuck higher and sometimes refusing to settle for less than the 22% of men. This bunch, it is not even worth talking about.
In conclusion. Focus on yourself. Become really good at something by picking a category that you believe you can achieve the highest points in. Focus almost all of your energy into that one category and you will notice those points doubling up across the board. Get on the wagon or stay off it forever!
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I wanna thank Roosh for making the trip. Even though I already expected such a review, its important that men that live in TO watch this video, read this blog and decide whether you wanna stay.
Leaving the city of MEN for the sunny shores of the city of Angels, was by no means an easy task. It required extensive research and rigorous planning. The main aspects we looked at were those rationalized as must-haves for men with high DRIVES about beautiful women when deciding upon a place to live: namely, quality, quantity and access. Comparing Torontostan to Los Angeles in all three categories would make for a very one-sided argument. However, here's our initial rough draft comparative analysis of dating/sexapades in the two urban centres...
Most of the wannabe actresses, models, porn stars or other entertainment girls move to LA at the very least at some point during their lives. They rarely leave. This has a two-fold effect. First, it automatically increases the quality of hot babes in the area. Secondly, and more importantly, it keeps the local Angelinas on their toes with regard to keeping in shape, getting their tan on and looking good. Looks wise girls here are at the very least 2-2.5 points higher on the look-barometer scale when compared to Toronto talent(and I'm being very generous to the latter). As the pics above demonstrate: While the girls on bottom pic (Toronto) are all attractive, they would never be considered TOP quality in L.A. PERFECTION TAKES A WHOLE OTHER MEANING HERE. If you look closely at the two pictures....The girls on the top pic are head-to-toe hot and they are not even top quality. We all know that clubs/lounges/special events etc pay agencies (modelling/hostess/staffing) to deliver attractive girls to walk around, greet customers and perform 'service' tasks (bottle service). In Toronto they occasionally brought a few models on top of their existing staff which made places appear less dead/sausage fests than they actually were. To put things in perspective, the staff girls here outshine the models there by a large margin. On top of all this, playmates, pornstars and other models juggle around like its their day off. A lot of the girls we see simply do not exist back home. Does this mean you'll be seen banging all these women? Of course not. But it raises the bar when it comes to who's hot, what a 9 or 10 is and who should be given the most/less attention.
Yes T-Dot does have a few hotties, but you only notice them more since there's so few of them around. Consequently, they would appear even hotter than they actually were. This is not just a supposition but an actual fact. Walking on King or Queen st on a Saturday afternoon, I would go back to my flat and remember intimately the hottest girl I saw on the street. I cannot do the same here at the third promenade, SM (just one example). Reason? Because there's simply too many!!
Granted the city of Angels is the city of hell when it comes to logistics. Location, Location, Location, does not really work here. Bars, clubs, lounges, restaurants, day game places are everywhere. The greater LA area itself is a collection of several cities and each one has its own unique settings, locales and fun pick up joints. CAR IS A MUST.
What I've found fascinating, however, is that you can walk into just about any place that serves drinks and sit at a bar, sooner or later a girl or two would appear near you. You can initiate convo (recommended in most cases) as people don't look at you and judge like they did in Toronto. This part is very important due to the discrimination a single guy with a high DRIVE got in T-Dot if he was seen alone trying to chat up women at restaurant bars.
In addition, you see very few girls with headphones on during the day time or large shades on their faces (even though its always sunny here). Clearly not trying to hide anything, which means they are not getting hit on constantly every time they leave their place. Women here love to dress sexy. You have to look very hard to see a woman without high heels (beach cities exempted).
Girls will generally not be rude and run away when approached, which happened a lot in T-Dot. Opening does not seem to be a problem. I had to adjust my mid-game initially because I was simply over-gaming.
Clubs in LA are expensive but worth it if you can afford it. The quality is through the roof.
While they are different depending on your style, music tastes etc, again, almost incomparable to T-Dot.
First of all, I have yet to see a pure Irish/British style pub. There are very few and girls/guys prefer cocktails over beer generally. Ratios in general are not favourable. The environment, however, is not tense at all and there's a lot of room to manoeuvre. Simply put, me and my wingman seem to be the only ones that are looking or staring when a hot girl walks in cause we are still not used to it. Flashback to T-Dot ....hot girl walks in, every guy at the bar including the ones on dates and the staff is looking....well, more like leering. That girl would be a sub-par Los Angeles online bang.
I was actually AFRAID to put my profile online in Toronto as it would probably interfere with my own self esteem/health and really make me depressed at not only the low quality (looks/sanity level) but also the rude comments and hyper-feminist behaviour of the 'local' girls. A girl that has many men after her, purchasing bottle service and invite her into 'exclusive' condo parties in Toronto is on pof in LA and can be pressured to meet up at a Cafe the next day.
The word 'creep' has yet to make an official appearance during my interactions with many women here. The reason is, there is a lot of 'different' people in the LA area. Girls are bombarded by cock/photoshoped photos, have been on a date with a guy that's 30 years older than his profile, a guy that is wearing an ankle bracelet (due to a court order), a local porn producer trying to put her on film etc. Hence, the term 'creep' here takes on a whole new meaning, unlike the meaning back home (any men that wants to fuck).
Tried the same company: FastLife in both cities: Results: Kind of embarrassing here as the guys speed-dating looked and talked like the gang of the Big Bang Theory. The girls were bangable. In Toronto, I remember having some serious competition with only two of the 18 girls showing up being bangable.
Dating in general:
Whereas in Toronto, girls looked at dating as either a huge jump into a serious relationship or flaked in numbers, girls here...simply put...KNOW HOW TO DATE. They know how to flirt, what to say, how to date. It hurts me to talk about this, as no one feels good by thrashing their own city, but schools teaching seduction/flirting to women must go up there (call it a stimulus plan to regenerate the Ontario Economy).
Girls are available to meet when you get their number and rarely flake. They take their time and are not rushed into starting a relationship any time soon. Given the competition of so many hot women, fast access to other friendly cities, San Diego, Las Vegas and a general chilled, relaxed 'live and let live' attitude it feels like just about anything is possible.
Sexual intercourse is not a big deal in Los Angeles. Many and I mean MANY women are not afraid to say they have a FWB. It's not seen as a negative. You don't really have to put much effort into 'gaming' if sex is what you are looking for (works best at dive bars). Increasing your sexual escalation early on is recommended however, as due to the nature of the city's logistics problem once you meet and have a good time but don't close, you just never know when you will meet again...
In conclusion, the problems that exist in Toronto exist in LA as well. But to a FAR FAR lesser degree. Some women will always be attention whores, unreasonable or simply just insane. Hot girls will always act like hot girls etc...BUT 7s and 8s should act like 7s and 8s. And 5s and 6s should stay home and hug their teddy bears!
These are just some preliminary points. Problems/areas of improvement associated with LA and the Socal area will be discussed at a Blog I'm currently working on.
Two boxers fight. Instanly one is always better than the other. One is bound to win. In the majority of cases it unfolds like this. The boxer with less experience, starts hitting his opponent. He is careful at first. Making very few attempts at uncovering himself. But slowly he begins to gain confidence and punch after punch, rallies behind the idea that he can actually win. The more experienced boxer awaits patiently. He gives little away as he intercepts his opponents punches and 'tires' him out. He waits and waits until he is ready to make that final blow....
The above can be applied to how I write. In almost all cases, my articles are inspired from real life experiences. And it is me, putting myself in positions many men would not dare do that results in collecting these thoughts, massaging these ideas and leaving a generously ample supply of dating jargon for this 'beloved' city.
By positioning myself I mean, experiencing negative feelings and having as many losses as I rack up victories.
A wise man once said, a losing battle is a victory, but a victorious one is a tragedy. I've always believed in it, yet have never experienced it first hand until I decided to put together this little blog. Until then, I never lost on purpose. Now, it is my strong opinion that one can rarely learn from their successes. But completely master the lessons a loss can teach. All a victory would do is make me repeat the exact same thing over and over again until it felt fake, unreal and ultimately lead to a loss. That, however, was a huge wake up call. It was as if, instantly, without even taking the time to lick my wounds or dust myself off, I started to plan my newest strategy.
So, as my time here is slowly coming to an end, I take with me some significant victories but most importantly many life changing LOSSES. And since I'll always be the nice kind of asshole, I decided to share them with you:
Lesson #1 : FOLLOW THE PUSSY - do not be cocky about this. The best strategy is always the easiest terrain. The more girls you have around, the better everything is. This applies, to shops, bars, beaches, clubs, other venues, cities, countries and continents. Is someone getting laid in Kabul right now? Probably, but if that isn't you, than go someplace where your chances are maximized.
Lesson #2: NEVER SPEND YOUR LIFE SITTING AT A DESK - Life's beautiful? Sure, but only if you have your days to enjoy it. If you get tied down to a 30 min lunch and a 9-5 schedule for most of it, guess what...you just missed it, while the dude with lots of time on his hand is living the life you want, going to the places you like and banging the chicks you dream of.
Lesson #3: DO NOT SPEND TIME ON YOUR 'ENEMIES' - With the right attitude and mindset, you should have a very thin list of enemies to begin with. Nevertheless, what is one to do about a hater...forgive and forget. The life you want and crave, your circle of DRIVE will not intersect with theirs. Make sure it doesn't.
Lesson #4: ENGAGE NEW IDEAS - Ideas built the world. One idea is worth a million insignificant random sentences. Be open minded and engage them. As hard as it is to accept new notions (humans are hard wired to resist to change) most of them will only improve your life.
Lesson #4: USE THE PAST ONLY AS HISTORICAL REFERENCE - While humans are hardwired to resist change, we are also very nostalgic of the past. If you notice, a lot of the time our conversations rely on retelling historic events from our lives often times wondering if the past was indeed a better, simpler time. THIS IS BULLSHIT. Things only get better in progression. In no other time have we had the social wiring we now possess and turned it into a skill, the possibility to travel at all corners of the world for relatively cheap prices and the amazing opportunities of becoming masters of our own destinies.
Lesson #5: LOOKS MATTER ANYWHERE YOU GO - To any Beta male stumbling upon this (I doubt it but there's always a few), stop falling pray of ROM/COMs and believing that the hot protagonist will fall for you at the end after repeatedly getting screwed by the dashing good looks of her part time lover. This almost never happens. Always maintain your looks in the best possible way. I do not promote overdoing it by plastic surgery but whatever you do, stay away from the Alan Harper Collection.
Lesson #6: IF YOU DO NOT FEEL LIKE GOING OUT, DON'T - I cannot recount the number of times I've ended up having a shitty time simply because I got dragged by others and went out for the sole purpose of going out instead of actually feeling up for it.
Lesson #7: DON'T DRINK TO FEEL BETTER - The old saying goes, don't drink to feel better, drink to feel EVEN better. In other words, if you are dependent on your bottle of scotch to get in a good mood, you should change other areas of your life that are stressing you out.
Lesson #8: DON'T TALK TO WOMEN YOU DON'T LIKE - If there is one little part of you that is indecisive about her looks or personality, avoid at all costs. All you will end up doing is waste time, money and your patience trying to convince yourself that you must fuck her even though your heart's not into it.
Lesson #9: NEVER UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF MONEY - No matter what stumbling blocks life throws your way it is always easier to be depressed whilst cushioned between the safeguard of green banknotes instead of the up and down shades of grey oozing from a shitty dry spell.
Lesson #10: STAY AWAY FROM EXCLUSIVE CLIQUES - you can only grow in most areas of your life while continuously experiencing a variety of interactions with an ample supply of diverse personalities. CLIQUES destroy creativity, look down upon free thinking and make any attempts at networking important connections impotent.
Lesson #11: DO NOT LIE TO YOURSELF - Staying positive is just like any other prescription medication, sooner or later it wears off. In most cases it is always advisable to be true at least with yourself and recognize reality for what it is. A healthy life is that in which the many elements inside your circle of DRIVE are recognized, accepted, analyzed and than dealt with accordingly.
Lesson #12: NEVER STOP PLANNING YOUR NEXT MOVE - Planning maps out important parts of your life, sets out goals, important deadlines and prompts you into skyhigh achievements.
Lesson #13: ALWAYS REMEMBER THE PYRAMID - As things are not bound to change anytime soon, observe the ranking you fall when you meet girls. The higher in the PYRAMID your initial interaction occurs, the easier it will be to pull
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Alas my friends, my time here is coming to an end. I am moving to a place where I have a better ROI. I will continue blogging in the city where I will move and make comparisons. I'll be moving with my wingman who has greatly contributed to these articles and without his help and insight, this would have not been possible. We will continue to write with the same analytical approach. I will introduce the new city once I am there.