And the GAME has changed. 99% of online dating guys will run some sort of pick up artistry material. Almost all of it will be unusable in this city and it will only have partial effect in other cities. Daters need to get advice specifically for Toronto and not something that a PUA is typing in another part of the world.
The typical online dater is male. Given that there is still resistance related to a certain stigma with online dating, the less aggressive sex, females, will tend to be less proactive in signing up or even if they do, pursuing men online. This is normal and is the case anywhere. You don’t see a lot of women in bars or clubs or parks pursuing men. However, the other way around is often true. This explains the vast majority of males on online dating sites as opposed to a minority of females. Again, this is typical in other cities. Given the sexual dynamics, men will always be more proactive than women in the sexual or dating market. Online, however, men are way more aggressive. Even an introverted male, would get up the courage to type a few lines or write a profile. Hence, women get hit on way more than in real life. This gets offset a bit from the fact that online women are more aggressive than in real life. They can have a conversation about sex and talk about sexual fantasies within 10 minutes. Even the easiest woman would not do that in a public setting with a stranger. Hence, where others see a problem, you should see an opportunity.
- Older women
- Over forty, single no kids (with or without pet)
- Over forty, divorced with kids
- Immigrant women
- Fresh off the boat
- First Generation
- Second Generation
- Local women in their 30’s
- No kids (with or without pet)
- With kids
- Girls in their 20’s that are trying online dating for the first time (the most sought after group)
You should take a look at each category in detail and try and breakdown why they are there, what they want (or more precisely need) and how you come into the picture. Knowing first-hand what you are dealing with can go a long way in preparing you on what to expect and how to deal with it. Being prepared and doing your homework ahead of time can only help you in every subject matter in life. The most important part in preparing yourself is actually taking notes and starting a journal or diary. This can be done through your phone. You spend all this time texting countless women that it goes nowhere. You might as well, spend a few minutes each day or week to jot down some lessons, truths or spoofs you have learned that can help you better your time with these women.
Consequently, it becomes of paramount importance to breakdown and analyze each group with their respective subgroups. This will put you in charge of knowing exactly what you are dealing with in the overwhelming majority of the cases. That is to say, with whomever you are confronted, in real life or the virtual world, you will know how to get on that person’s good side. In addition, you will blow the competition out. For example: say, you and other men are talking to a Russian woman who lives in the West part of the city. Given that everyone nowadays is very GAME-Savvy they have read some material on how to act all alpha and blow out other guys who are BETA etc. This means, they will act very tough, very “macho” and say things that most likely go against their nature. If they are indeed tough and macho in real life, they will fail online.
What they don’t realize is that most of the material they read online will not help them with this woman. They have not studied the groups and subgroups and the elements that these women respond to. The Russian woman is beautiful, she’s 34, unmarried, and not planning on getting married any time soon. What do the 98.5% of the men say? “That’s a horrible shirt you have on. Pink is not your color” or “You have no respect for animals portraying your cat like that” or my favourite “Here’s my digits. Text me back, my friend does not believe retards can text!”.